Accomplishments

• T came down from Hokkaido to visit for the weekend!
• We had a successful turkey dinner on Saturday, November 20. Cooked a 9-pound turkey in a microwave convection oven for about four hours. Hosted 12 people. Everyone brought something--dessert, a side dish, snacks, a guitar. . . and I never could have done all of it without A's oven in Maebashi: thank you! Also had seven people sleep over. Piles of futons all over my house.
• Ashikaga Wine Festival in Tochigi Prefecture. Bottle of wine, wine glass (inevitably breaking; thanks AB), and bottle opener for 2500 yen. Climbed a mountain and took some pictures.
• Got a membership card at Time Clip (movie rental place) and a movie that I can keep for a week for FREE! (Saleslady explained everything to me showing me a pamphlet and explaining it in maybe simple Japanese, but I still was surprised that she didn't want my money.)
• Went with Mr. K to get toyu (kerosene) for my heaters. He made me talk to the guy who worked there for Japanese practice. "とゆ、ください。”　”いくつリテロ？”　”１８。”　(Kerosene, please. How many liters? 18.) No problem. Then to a grocery store and drug store tour. And I learned when the cashier says, "Irasshaimase" you either don't say anything or you say, "Kore, kudasai" (this, please). There is no small talk ("Nice weather we're having, huh?") like in the U.S. According to Mr. K, "communication is small" in Japan. According to Dr. H at UNCG, Japan has a "high-context culture"--talking is not necessary. A certain type of telepathy exists among them, unlike in America, where we have to talk about everything.
• I'm starting to run to keep my blood flowing during these cold winter months. Got almost to the library (a kilometer away) without stopping. Today I went to Mitsudera Park, saw two of my students kicking a soccer ball, and ran twice around the park. I had to stop three times. Then I biked to the library (2 kilometers away?), got a Japanese detective novel, Harry Potter 1, and a book of haiku. Ignored the tables upon tables of my students in their uniforms hunched over their books. It was a beautiful day.
• Watched A order pizza online at pizza-la.co.jp. Now I know!

I had the chillest of chill weekends. Stayed home Friday night and most of the day of Saturday. Staying home most of Sunday, too. I love these weekends doing nothing. But accomplishing so much.

Cinema Experience

For all my film school friends out there who complain about the American movie experience (stupid people in the crowd being loud, cell phones going off, etc.) may I recommend flying several thousands miles to experience a movie in Japan? I saw Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Part One last night and was just as impressed with the theater as I was the movie itself (which, being the HP fan that I am, I loved). Maybe all theaters aren't like the one I went to, but here's what I liked about the one I went to:

First, you get to pick your seat when you buy your ticket. The computer screen faces you, and after you tell the friendly cashier (or surly cashier who maybe hates gaijin) what movie you want to see, the available seats pop up on the touch-screen. Your seat number is printed on your ticket, so no one argues over seating.

Second, the previews and commercials are funny because you don't understand them. There were about 10 minutes of commercials, some which were really weird. What is really up with that Honda commercial and the guys in superhero costumes? I was also impressed with the 5-minute presentation on UNICEF's Clean Water Project that this theater is helping with. Maybe they just showed it because it's almost Christmas, but it was nice to see theaters chipping in with a very noble cause to help communities in various countries in Africa and Southeast Asia. But none of the previews for American movies looked good to me at all--sorry, Tron fans.

Most theaters have a cheesy intro right before the movie starts, requesting movie-goers to turn off their phones and please go get some Coke, because aren't you sooooo thirsty? But the intro at this theater was very. . . Japanese. Simple and to the point. Black and white pictures showing a cell phone, a couple talking, and a cigarette, all with a "no" signs across them. Violin music in the background. "Please refrain from talking during the movie kudasai," "Please refrain from smoking in the theater, kudasai." So kind and polite, in English and in Japanese. Everyone in the theater in silent, rapt attention, a state in which they stayed for the two-and-a-half-hour running time of the movie.

After Harry Potter ended with [spoil spoil spoil], I expected the house lights to come on and the people to start scurrying out before "Daniel Radcliffe" and "Rupert Grint" even flashed across the screen. But no such thing. Only ONE COUPLE snuck out, but the rest of the crowd remained in the still-dark theater throughout the entire credit roll, silently reading the list of gaffers, best boy grips, and stunt performers. I doubt that many of people in the audience could read all that English--I mean, I wouldn't want to watch the credits rolling in a language I didn't understand--so I'm doubly impressed. I've never been to a mainstream movie theater (and this one was on the third floor of a *mall*) where 99% of the crowd watched the credits and the theater stayed dark during them. I wished you UNCSA people could have been there to see it. You would have been so proud.

Pride and Falls, Etc.

I heard somewhere that your highs are higher and your lows are lower living in a foreign country. It's so true. If something good happens (like I have a successful conversation with someone, or understand someone's sentence), I'm on top of the world. But if something bad happens, I come crashing down, devastated and wanting to hop on the nearest flight back home.

It's little stuff too that gets me down. Like yesterday. I went to Saty (supermarket) to pick up some things I need for dinner this weekend. I was in such a good mood, feeling like I knew what I was doing, I could get around, I had my dictionary on me so I could ask if nani-nani was there, and hey, I've been here almost FOUR MONTHS so I am no stranger any more. Ha. Ha. Ha. The problem was that everything I was looking for was so Western I couldn't find it anywhere. After 20 minutes of going up and down every aisle in the place and feeling people's eyes boring into me (which probably isn't even true, but I get paranoid), I left with just a few things. I didn't even get easy things like butter and milk because I didn't want to be there one minute longer! Then the cashier asked me a question and I looked at her blankly--I'm getting so good at that "what-did-you-just-say" expression. Luckily she repeated herself in English, and I was grateful.

I couldn't find black raspberry Jell-O at the other store either (I know, laugh, laugh, laugh). I did ask one of the salesladies if they had gelatin, though, and she showed me two packages. They looked plain, though, and I needed flavored. "Hang on a second," I muttered in English, fumbling around for my dictionary so I could find the word I was looking for, but couldn't find either one. She stood by politely, but I couldn't find the word I wanted to use, and I felt antsy and pressured. "Nevermind," I said in English, then in Japanese said, "It's okay. It's okay." I'm sure she wanted to help, but wasn't sure what I was looking for.

Today G and I went to Aeon to buy baking dishes and to have dinner. He waited for our hot plates to come out, and I went to McDonald's to get drinks and fries to go with it. I was trying to tell the cashier that I wanted two drinks: one large Coke and one small ginger ale. I obviously said the wrong thing, though, because she made TWO large Cokes to go with my ginger ale. And all I could do was stare dumbly at the tray and say in English, "But that wasn't. . . nevermind." I could have pressed the issue and explained myself, but it was so much easier just to pick up the tray and forgo the extra 200 yen. And I felt like my night was ruined. Because of one little incident!

It's just--oh! The incompetence! The impotence! The not being able to communicate, not to be able to say simple things in an understandable way. I could have lived in any of the 22 Spanish-speaking countries or 53 English-speaking ones, but no. I need a good challenge. Feeling incompetent is good for my over-inflated self-esteem.

So I have to say what I always say: Ganbarimasu! I'll keep trying......

What Time Do You Go to Bed?

My first year junior high school students (ichi-nen-seis, comparable to American 7^th graders) are studying time expressions. Last week they learned “What time is it in London/Australia/China/Japan/etc.?” This week they are learning, “What time do you get up/have breakfast/come home/go to bed?” We play a quick warm-up game to get them shouting time expressions at the top of their lungs, T-sensei introduces the vocabulary and grammar, the students listen to T-sensei ask me about my daily schedule (and are fascinated that I go to bed at 11:00 and get up at 6:30!), then the students fill in a schedule in their books with their own answers.

For the most part, what they write is fairly standard. “I wake up at 7:30. I eat breakfast at 7:40.” (Everyone seems to hop right out of bed and run to the breakfast table, according to their schedules! Do they all take baths at night?) “I go to bed at 10:30.” There are a few “I go to bed at 11:30”s, but the majority of the kids—12- and 13- year olds—are getting about seven or eight hours’ sleep every night. One girl even goes to sleep at 9:30 and wakes up at 7:00. Now that’s a schedule I can get down with.

Then there are these other kids. “I go to bed at 1:00 a.m. I wake up at 5:00 a.m.” WHAT? Did I just read that right? “I go to bed at 12:00 a.m. I wake up at 4:30 a.m.” Sorry, come again?

“Why?” I ask one student, the cute girl with pigtails and bright red glasses who gets up at 5:00. “What do you do that early?” She doesn’t understand. I rephrase. “What time do you come to school?”

“Oh, seven o’clock,” she replies casually, as if it were the most natural thing in the world. “Brass band.”

“Why do you go to bed so late?” I turn around to ask the kid who goes to bed at 1:00 a.m. and gets up between 4:00 and 5:00. He always seems awake enough in class but his eyes do look tired.

He doesn’t have enough English to really understand my question, but my incredulous expression passes straight through the language barrier. He answers me in Japanese. “Benkyou,” he says. Studying.

“Do you go to juku?” (Juku is cram school, a place where a lot of junior high and high school students spend their after-hours and weekends cramming for extra subjects or to get extra help.)

He nods. I inwardly gasp.

I point to the schedule where he had written, “I come home at four o’clock in the afternoon.” “Do you sleep at 4 o’clock? Do you go to bed then?” I ask.

Either he doesn’t understand me or he really just doesn’t sleep, because he shakes his head. He points at, “I go to bed at one o’clock.” “I go to bed,” he tells me.

After class, as T-sensei and I are gathering our materials, I ask him, “Why are the kids going to bed so late and waking up so early? They are so busy!”

“This is the life of a Japanese junior high school student,” he says dryly. He doesn’t say anything more, and I don’t feel like it would be appropriate for me to scream, “But that’s crazy!” So I am quiet.

Earlier today, one of my ni-nen-seis (2^nd year students) had told me he had gone to bed at 1:00 a.m. the night before too, because he was doing his homework. In this case, I would believe that he had just slacked off until the last minute, instead of having a legitimate excuse. (He’s the student who won’t get his work done during the 50 minutes of class time, the 20 minutes of extra time at the lunch break, or after school. You could give him the rest of eternity and he’d be too busy goofing off to actually do his work.)

But these other kids. Is it common that Japanese students wear themselves out studying? There is a lot that has surprised me about the school system here, but nothing seems quite so shocking as the fact that so many students are stretched so thin. It’s not just school. It’s school, cram school, piano lessons, tennis club, judo club, private tutors, Sports Day, speech contests, entrance exams . . . the list goes on and on. Most kids are wearing their uniforms seven days a week! Drive down Highway 25 in Takasaki at 8:00 on a Saturday morning and it’ll be bustling with uniformed students on their way to cram school just like it was a weekday. When do they rest? When do they sleep? When do they have—heaven forbid—free time? How do they get to love Arashi and AKB48 and One Piece if they’re always glued to their notebooks?

It’s not that I’m not an advocate for education. (I mean, look at those double negatives! Of course I want children to study!) But I wonder when can kids be kids here?

I think back to when I was a junior high school student (except we call them middle schoolers) back in the mid-90s. Sure, the school was in the middle of nowhere—there was only one middle school and one high school for the whole county—but there were still plenty of clubs and teams to participate in. I ran track in seventh grade and took piano lessons once a week in town. In high school I was in the drama club and the Spanish club and sang in the Chorus. But that was about the extent of my WCMS/HS participation. And I don’t ever remember feeling exhausted as a child. I mostly remember coming home from school, doing my homework, and playing outside until it got dark. And you can bet my parents had me in bed before ten o’clock when I was thirteen years old, too!

So why are Japanese and American students so different? It’s not that Japanese kids are particularly smarter or more well-behaved than American kids. There are plenty of students at GMJHS who don’t take school seriously, who talk during class, who do their homework at the last minute (or not at all), who slack off. But their lifestyles seem to be different. In Japan, kids’ lives seem to revolve around school. In America, school is something to put up with until you’re eighteen.

I guess there are American kids—most of them mid-to upper-middle class—who are just as busy as the kids are here. (Read Unequal Childhoods by Annette Lareau for a really good comparison between the kids who have strictly regimented weekly schedules filled with soccer and music lessons and trips to Europe and the kids who don’t.) But those kids don’t make up the majority of the population in America like they do here.

Am I so backwards that I don’t think filling a child’s every minute with activities is the best way for them to have a healthy, happy life? Kids need sleep. Kids need to play. Kids need time to be creative and fill their free time the way they want. I can’t imagine being twelve and having so many expectations put on me. What if school is hard for me? Do I just study more?

Do I say, "Oh, it's just the way it is?" I can't help but feel sorry for my students. Are they used to it, though, so it's okay? Am I being too culturally-centric to understand the deeper meanings here? What do you think?

Tokyo Interior: A Play in One Act

Conversation Between Saleswoman at Tokyo Interior and Me (100% Japanese)

I see a rug I like, marked for 6800 yen. A red 40% off sign is beside it. A saleswoman is approaching.

Saleswoman (under her breath): Irrasahimase. (Welcome, come in, etc. Everyone in stores greets their customers with this line).

Me (going up to her and pointing at rugs): Excuse me. How long is this sale until?

Saleswoman: Japanese, Japanese, Japanese, Japanese, let me see. (Looks at sign.) (Continues talking in comprehensible Japanese.)

Me: I want this rug. But today I don’t have money. Next week, will it be here?

Saleswoman: Mmmmmm. (Takes bar-coded prices out of the plastic sleeve. Shows me two tickets. Speaks in Japanese.)

Me (switching tactics): Maybe it will be here. Maybe it won’t be here. Maybe I can buy today. Is VISA okay?

Saleswoman: VISA card?

Me: Yes, VISA card.

Saleswoman: It’s okay.

Me: Can I see it?

Saleswoman: Sure. (We both take it off the rack and place it on a stack of rugs nearby.)

Me: I like it.

Saleswoman: (Smiles.)

Me (pointing at 40% off sign and at 6800 yen sign): Is this the last price? Is it [in English, “40% off”] now? Is it 5000 yen? 4000 yen?

Saleswoman: Japanese, Japanese, Japanese, Japanese. Wait just a second, please. (Runs off.)

Me: OK.

Me (to myself): Am I having a conversation in Japanese?

Saleswoman (returning): (Points to 40% sign.) 6800 is already 40% off. 6800 is the [in English, “last price”].

Me [in English]: Mmmmm, let me think.

Saleswoman: (Looks at me quizzically.)

Me [in Japanese]: To think. (Makes thoughtful face. Puts finger on temple in “Thinking” pose.)

Saleswoman: (Maybe gets it.) Japanese, Japanese, Japanese.

Me [in English]: Maybe I can come back. Today I will not buy it. Thank you for your trouble, though.

Saleswoman: Oh, it’s okay.

Me & Saleswoman: (Put the rug back on the rack.)

Me: I’m sorry, just a little Japanese.

Saleswoman: It’s okay. Just a little English.

Me: Thank you a lot. Maybe I will come back.

Saleswoman: Thank you. Japanese, Japanese, Japanese.

Me: Thank you.

(End Scene)

Christmas is Coming the Stores Are All Crowded...

I've been bugging my mom for piano sheet music recently, so she sent me a stack of the hymns I wrote about earlier and the music to a cantata our church did in 1997 (?) called "That's Christmas." Tonight I went to my host mom's house for dinner, and before we ate our Chinese stir-fry, rice, and salad, I got to bang on their beautiful Kawai piano for half an hour. Of course the family didn't recognize any of the songs (American families don't know this cantata!), but I was transported back to high school, with Josh singing, "Do not be afraid, Mary...." and everyone else bellowing out, "Where is the Child?!" vigorously. (And remember when Jonathan thought "laud" was Southern for "Lord"? Of course, he was 10 at the time, but still...it was funny.)

Christmas is already all over Japan. All the stores are playing Christmas music and they all have Christmas decorations up. But I'm thinking about the Thanksgiving dinner I'm going to miss in two weeks! (I'll have my own version here, I'm sure, but it won't be exactly the same.) I wonder what Christmas will be like. My host mom has invited me to her house, where they celebrate the Japanese way: eating KFC and cake. Not exactly my mom's glazed ham, but it'll have to do, I suppose! Maybe Christmas is like home: wherever you are, you make it yours.

Language, Time Capsules, and Japanese Class

“Sumimasen” (すみません) is a magical word. Depending on context, it can mean “I’m sorry,” “Excuse me,” or “Thank you,” and it can get you out of almost any pickle you happen to find yourself in. JTE talking too fast? “Sumimasen, can you repeat that, please?” You trip over someone on the train? “Sumimasen, sumimasen!” (and throw in a “gomenasai”—the real “I’m sorry”—too, for good measure, so they’ll quit thinking darkly, “Pinche gajin…These foreigners are ruining our country!”

I felt happy yesterday because I felt like I helped the gaijin cause. First, the woman behind me in line at the sushi counter dropped a 100-yen coin but didn't realize it. When I picked it up and handed it to her, with a maybe impolite, “Anata-no desuku?” (Is this yours?) she gave me a shocked look, stared incomprehensibly at her palm with the other coins in it, and stared back at me. Then she let out a string of “sumimasen”s, which could have meant, “I’m sorry to have troubled you,” or could have been, “Thank you so much for your trouble!” or maybe, “OK, thank you, goodbye.”

Then on the bus headed home from the Takasaki train station, a woman’s wheeled suitcase flew across the floor when the bus driver took a turn too fast. Since I was the closest to it, I picked it up for her and rolled it back to her seat. “Sumimasen! Suminasen!” she cried. Score two for the white girl.

(This may or may not balance out the butter incident in Tako-machi, Chiba-ken. I put two sticks of butter on the counter to pay for them. The cashier looked at me, looked at the butter, looked at me again, and asked hesitantly if I want a bag. No, thank you. Is a sticker ok? Yes, quite ok. He put the stickers on the butter and slid them across the counter to me. I showed my wallet. Aren’t I supposed to pay for these? He made an embarrassed noise and rang them up. 200-odd yen. I paid, got my change, left. Half-way back, I realized he only charged me for one. Do I go back? How do I explain? Did he do it on purpose? Was he too shaken up by the sight of a non-Japanese person that he forgot what he was doing? In the end, I didn’t go back, and I let my guilty conscience accompany me home. I still feel kind of bad about it.)

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HOUSE

There is something absolutely comforting about being in my apartment—wrapped up in a quilt on the couch, or curled up on my 4-layer deep futon—that just seems like home. I wonder, though, if home is just anywhere I am, if I just make it home. No matter where I’m living, it seems like I always end my day writing in my diary and reading a book. Last night before I turned out the lamp, I looked at my bookcase and saw the same titles that have accompanied me for the past ten years: some Ray Bradbury, some poetry, some Cortázar, and a bound blank book that serves as journal. I guess it’s these rituals that keep me grounded.

Speaking of rituals and being grounded, I got an email yesterday from Forbes.com. Apparently, I had signed up for its 5-Year E-Mail Time Capsule on November 8, 2005. I’m not going to copy the whole thing, but here’s part of it:

“Well, it’s noon on Tuesday, November 8, 2005. I’m sitting in my office at [X] in Greensboro, North Carolina….I’ve got a lot of plans for the next five years and I really hope they happened.

1. Travel to Mexico, Argentina, Bolivia, and/or London. AT LEAST Mexico!!!

2. MOVE OUT OF THE HOUSE I’M IN NOW and get a real house in the country with lots of room and space for a garden and animals.

….

4. Be happy.

I am 23 years old right now. I will be 28 in five years. Lord, Lord, Lord.

…

And so, I leave you here, at 12:08 p.m., sitting in this office wearing your fuzzy GAP pants and shirt, about to take a phone call.

Love,

Jaimie”

Funny, isn’t it, how time flies. In 1997, I put together a “time capsule” in a checkbox, taped it all together, and wrote in capital letters: “DO NOT OPEN UNTIL AUGUST 29, 2007, 1:07 P.M..” When the allotted hour arrived, I tore open the tape eagerly, having forgotten everything I had put in there. And much was my disappointment when all I found from 15-year old Jaimie was a couple of pictures of Leonardo DiCaprio, some plastic hair clips, pages ripped from a teen magazine, and something written about a boy I had a crush on then (yeah, you know who you are). I think I had just been cleaning my room back then when the urge to preserve some part of my life struck me—or maybe I was just bored with straightening up?—so I packed it up quickly from random objects strewn around my room. Next time I’ll have to do a better job.

But back to this 2005 time capsule. Well, in the past five years, I’ve managed to go to Mexico three times and Bolivia once, although I still haven’t gone to Argentina or England. And I can certainly say I moved out of my house…. and city…and state….and country….Check. Of course, Japan isn’t really known for its “lots of room and space for a garden and animals” but I guess I’ll get that when I go back home to stay. I will also say I feel quite happy with my life now (except when I'm in Japanese class, as you will see below). I just wish I knew where those fuzzy GAP pants and shirt were. . . .

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Japanese Class

It still gives me a headache. Yesterday, I was so stressed out from 2 hours of not understanding and not being able to communicate (“Quit giving me new assignments when I don’t understand the old ones!!!!”) that as soon as I got in my car and drove ten feet, I screamed at the top of my lungs for 30 seconds. It didn’t help. I went home and did 20 push-ups quick. It still didn’t help. I was furious, furiously furious like I haven't been in a long time. I threw on my tennis shoes and pounded down my neighborhood streets in the dark, stopping at the corners and high-speed jump-roping until I was so out of breath my lungs hurt. After about 20 minutes of this madness, sprinting and jump-roping, I wore myself out. I stumbled home and sprawled out on the couch for the next hour, sipping water and trying to breathe. Then I read “Dance, Dance, Dance” and went to sleep.

This morning I woke up and my knee hurts again.

What does this tell me about teaching a foreign language? About language-learning? About me as a teacher and a student? What can I learn from all this?

Chi-Chi-Chi-Chiba

(I'm breaking this up into two blogs in one day: EVENTS and NOT-EVENTS)

#1: EVENTS

So I spent the weekend in Chiba, a flat, dog-shaped prefecture a couple of hours southeast of crane-shaped Gunma, visiting my friend M. After the mountains of Gunma, Chiba seemed remarkably flat to me as I rode out to Narita Airport on the train. To get to M’s little town, you take the JR (Japan Rail) from Takasaki to Ueno, then switch trains to an entirely different line I’ve never heard of, then take a bus for thirty minutes out to the inaka (countryside), admiring the rice fields and evergreen trees as you go. From there, it’s another 5- or 10-minute walk to his apartment. Traveling in a foreign country is always so fun!

Most of Saturday was spent at the Tako Junior High School PTA Bazaar (or ba-zaa, as they say in Japanese). It reminded me of any little festival back home: tables set up outside, food venders wandering around, arts and crafts displays in the big community building, secondhand and super cheap new things in another building. And everywhere were Tako JH kids milling around in their nice navy blue track suit uniforms, selling hot dogs, apple cider, popcorn, or bento boxes of sushi, and throwing "Hello!"s out at us, the two non-Japanese people. M had convinced his JTEs that he should volunteer, too, so not ten minutes after we arrived, we found ourselves in aprons selling hot sweet potatoes.

It was kind of fun to stand beside a huge fire pit—like a barbeque pit but much smaller—calling out, “Irasshaimase! Yaki-imo! Hyaku yen! Kaitte, kudasai!” (which should mean, if I was saying it right, “Welcome! Sweet potatoes! 100 yen! Buy one!”) Being on the other side of the "Irasshiamase!" was also fun, because I got to be as loud and nasally as I wanted! The attendees—mostly middle-aged or older women with huge empty shopping bags under their arms to put their bazaar goods in—either seemed delighted or terrified of me, but in either case, I still managed to sell about 10 or 15 potatoes before heading to the bazaar myself.

Neither M nor I had brought shopping bags (not thinking we’d really want anything), but after a few minutes in the huge barn/gym/community center place, we realized we probably should have. I picked up a 500-yen t-shirt (and Jonathan, you’d better like it, too, if it fits, that is), a 50-yen sweater (best purchase all day), a 50-yen bag, a 200-yen bag of kitchen towels, a 200-yen pair of sweatpants, and 100-yen toilet cleaner! M got a brand-new coffee maker for 400-yen, which was also a pretty stellar purchase, and some other stuff. After all of our loot was bagged, a 13-year old kid asked us if we wanted any help getting it to our car.

Oh yeah. Getting home. We hadn’t driven, though: M had ridden (had rode?) his scooter, and I biked, neither modes of transportation really full of storage space. We stuck our bags in another building for the time being and decided to cross that carrying everything home bridge when we got to it.

In the meantime, we continued to shirk our duty as potato salesfolk and went to see what was happening in the community arts building. (We were still wearing the aprons, though, so they'd think we were working...) There were students' art pieces hung up on huge displays in the main hall: bright paintings of the beach, self-portraits done in pencil, various watercolors, and a big display of calligraphied kanji. M and I spent a good 20 minutes reading the hiragana and struggling over the kanji: I might have recognized 10 out of 200. Nature photographs (taken by adults this time) lined the walls down the hall. In another room was a scene straight from the North Carolina State Fair: tables of handmade arts and crafts from the autumn and winter holidays. There were knit and crocheted sweaters hanging up, Halloween-themed wall hangings, silver spray-painted flower arrangements, and ceramic animals, mixed awkwardly with the more traditional Japanese masks and art. It was nice to see it all, though. It felt like home.

At 3:30, we snuck into the auditorium, where some performances were already going on. We listened to a couple of men in 1940s voices sing love ballads in high, nasally voices that almost sounded Chinese. We watched a traditional Japanese dance that involved men in expressionless masks circling around the lead singer in a brilliant gold suit. And we marveled over a group of absolutely gorgeous and scantily-clad Japanese women dancing the hula, wearing coconuts and grass skirts. The dancers were soon joined by older women in more modest clothing, but who could also dance to Hawaiian music like they had been born there.

At 4:15-ish, the show finished, we managed to stuff all of our purchases onto M’s scooter and rode home. (Side note: the fastest I could bike was 29 kilometers an hour—about 18 miles an hour—for about half a minute. Keeping up with a motored vehicle on a bicycle ain’t all that easy, though.)

I had to leave Sunday morning, so the rest of Saturday was pretty chill: we made New Zealand lolly cake (involving some kind of fruity, gummy candy I’d never heard of before) and watched anime before playing two extremely competitive games of chess. I almost won one. But lost them both.

The ride back to Takasaki took over four hours: 30 minutes in bus, 70-minute train from Narita to Kesai-Ueno, walk from Kesai-Ueno to JR Ueno, then on a train for 2 more hours until Takasaki. It was funny, though, how competent I felt. I guess because I know how to read a map, and because everything's in English. I can get myself around by myself, and I feel kind of cool. It was also nice how familiar the mountains of Gunma seemed when they first appeared from the window. It’s like I said last time I went on a trip: coming home now feels like coming home, the way I used to feel when I saw the “Greensboro City Limits” sign from I-40. Except this time, it says, "高崎."

Catch-Up

Hi everyone,

I'm sorry I haven't written for a few days--I'm sure you've all been holding your breath in anticipation! I just wanted to write a quick note and let you know I'm still alive and well over here. It's still mostly cold and rainy, but some days, like today, are spectacular and autumn-y. Unfortunately, they're also the days spent inside all day; by the time I leave after 4:00 there is only about an hour of daylight left.

My Halloween was fun: on Friday I watched "The Ring" and "The Others" with a group of friends in Takasaki, and on Saturday I joined almost 100 more people in a two-room bar for a huge Halloween Costume party. I didn't take too many pictures but those I have are on Facebook if you want to see them. I went as the Year of the Dog and was told either that it was a fantastic, original idea, or that it was too hard to figure out and what was I thinking....

I went to my Japanese class yesterday and it was definitely one of the best so far! (I skipped it last week because I had to prepare for my English class on Tuesday morning.) Another student joined Sensei and I, a Chinese guy in his 30s who speaks about as much Japanese as I do. Of course, he also has a huge start on me with the kanji: any word he doesn't understand, he just asks the teacher to write it for him, and he immediately gets it. The teacher had a lesson plan, too, even though he expected us to absorb much more vocabulary than is humanly possible in one night. Over the course of the two-hour class we studied:

• fruits and vegetables
• numbers
• body parts (in way too much detail: he was even giving us the name for each individual finger! I did feel smart for a second though because I guessed "naka-yubi" 中ゆび was middle finger and I was right!)
• counters (the ending to the word changes according to if what you're counting is paper, trees, animals, people, cylindrical objects, etc.)
• sicknesses and ailments ("throw up" is "hakikega shimasu" はきけがします if you need to know)
• verbs and nouns ("I BRUSH my TEETH," "I DRINK TEA," etc.)

I wanted to interrupt him and tell him I would feel much better if we could practice what we learn, but he seemed happy just telling us without having us practice. I did get a lot out of the class, though, and feel like I learned something, even though he broke the "10 new vocabulary words a day" rule.

My English classes at school are also helping me with Japanese, since they're conducted primarily in that language. All the teachers write the vocabulary lists bilingually on the board, so I'm picking up some of what the students are learning. Today I learned, "ii ii n desu yo" = "That's all right."

School is going well. I really love the teachers and the students--most of them, anyway! The 14-year old girls call me Lady Gaga in the hallway (don't ask) and the boys all yell, "Hello!" at me without waiting for an answer. It apparently is hilarious to speak in English to me, too, because every time I walk past a group of students and say, "Hi!" or "Good morning" or what have you, they respond and then immediately burst into peals of laughter. I'm glad I'm good for that. I also understand why no one can really pronounce "Hello" the way I think it should be: the katakana for it is "Ha-ro." Maybe it's the British way?

Today we had an earthquake and fire drill, which consisted of hiding under our desks for 10 seconds before immediately running (literally: RUNNING) down the stairs and out the door into the soccer field. The firemen gave the students a 20-minute presentation on how to use a fire extinguisher while I didn't understand anything in his speech but "3-5 meters" (san-go metoro). It was nice to be outside, though.

Tomorrow (Wednesday) is another holiday--! This time Culture Day. I'm planning on spending it at my apartment cleaning and doing laundry before going to the park and to a friend's house to play the piano. I want a low-key, do-nothing day, and I'm pretty sure that's what I'll get. I'm going to Chiba (a few prefectures over) for the weekend, so I need to rest while I can before I hit the ground running. Tonight I've studied Japanese, conjugated about 15 verbs, and eaten some delicious homemade chicken and vegetable soup. I might watch E.T. before I go to bed: I've been thinking about it ever since I was planning the Halloween lesson at school (I ended up using "Monster Mash" instead of clips from the movie, though).

Sorry there's nothing too exciting going on recently, and that my writing is taking a sharp downhill curve. Hopefully I'll have more to talk about as time goes on. Thanksgiving is just around the corner, as is Christmas and New Year's! My, how time flies--!